There are too many reasons why people get divorced these days as marriage is not vital anymore how it could be 100 years ago. Our modern culture gives us more and more freedom and choice about whether we want to be married. There are 3 very common communication issues that often lead couples to divorce and breaking the relationship. Avoid these 3 things from the very beginning to communicate more efficiently, constructively and productively.
There are so many people who are arguing or fighting over issues which don’t have much relevance. We must all realize it is not worth it.
On the one hand, arguing is just a part of our life and it is okay. But it is absolutely not okay if you and your partner can’t communicate without arguing. Especially if you used to be able but aren’t able to do this anymore. When your every conversation ends up with arguing, it shows that you can’t solve tasks and problems you face. You don’t act like a team and it makes things even harder.
Key to the solution: Patience. Every time you feel about to argue with your spouse, think is it really worth it.
When we judge or criticize another person, it says nothing about that person; it merely says something about our own need to be critical.
Criticism can be helpful and healthy thing sometimes. But you need to be very kind, caring and careful when it comes to criticism of your close people – parents, close friends, and spouses. It’s extremely easy to hurt them with your irritation and wrong attitude. Bt polite and soft.
Key to the solution: Politeness. You know that you have to be polite with people in public places and at work. So what’s the problem in politeness at home? When you need to say something not very pleasant to your partner, be ready to say that thing softly and politely. Say truth with love.
3. Sence of humor. An absence of the sense of humor.
Sence of humor and common reasons to laugh and smile is the vital thing for a strong relationship. It can help you to solve all the issues and act as a team if you accept your partner, his or her opinion and if you could laugh together. Ever laugh at yourself.
If your communication issues are unsolvable, sometimes you face breaking the relationship and divorce. The divorce process is incredibly painful and stressful. Remember that it’s not the end of the life, and once you will be able to smile again.
Your dream doesn’t have an expiration date. Take a deep breath and try again.
― KT Witten
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