Date Someone Who Makes You Want To Be a Better Person

It’s so easy to get caught up in how we think we deserve to be treated that we overlook how we’re going to treat our other half.

We focus all of our energy on how we want someone to love us that we forget to show them the love they deserve, too.

What it comes down to, is the fact that if we truly and completely love someone we’ll want to be the best possible version of ourselves for them.

Every soul loves a little bit differently, we just have to whip ourselves into ‘forever love’ material because our hearts are drawn to this person who makes us want to be better for them.

Date someone who makes you want to go out of your way just to make them smile. 

Date someone who’s laugh is so infectious that you’d do just about anything to hear it. And when she cries, you feel a pit in your stomach too because it breaks your heart to see her like this.

Wipe her tears, not because you have to, but because something inside you tells you this is the right thing to do. And do everything in your power not to be the reason she’s crying.

Date someone who brings out the best in you without even trying.

Someone who loves every inch of you, all of you, the good and the not so good. Who sees your flaws and loves them a little extra so you’ll never forget to love them, too.

Because with that you’ll be able to love yourself enough to give her all of you.

Date someone who makes you feel so undeniably secure that you never even question how she feels about your or how to treat her, or whether or not she’s loving you in the way you deserve.

Date someone who makes fighting at 3 am worth the sleepless night.

Date someone who makes you check yourself once in a while because that means she cares enough to want to see you grow.

Who makes you second guess yourself and your actions, who doesn’t always agree with you but has your back regardless. Someone who will stand up for you and validates your feelings.

Date someone who makes you want to be the person you always thought you deserved. 

Date someone who makes you want to be a better person because losing their love would break you.

Because the truth is, sometimes, we can be pretty selfish without even realizing. But when you’re with this person, your soul won’t let you become that way.

You’ll make sure she never questions her worth or feels like she deserves better and you’ll never go a day without letting her know she’s loved.

You’ll be someone who appreciates her experiences rather than judges them and never allows her insecurities consume her.

It’s her selfless and unconditional love that makes you want to step up and try a little harder. Because then, that energy you put into her will come back to you.

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Written by Brittney Lindstrom

I am a mental health counselor and certified rehabilitation counselor. I am currently in my doctorate program for organizational leadership and behavior. I have been writing for over 7 years now.

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Real King

Good one!

El Pipe

I love this! Thank you @bittles0816


Brandon Smith

this is just the truth

Voat Spy

well, how do we find a better person? sometimes it so depressing loving those who dont care to love you back

Elna Brad

thank you so much Brit, one of the best ive read in a veryy long time

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