I’m a super mom but I’m not Super-Mom.
I don’t care about getting credit for being a parent. I would rather the help because parenting is hard to accomplish solo.
You can try to do it all but you’ll wear yourself out then complain letter.
It takes a village to raise a child.
Delegation and substitution makes parenting so much easier.
Whatever the child needs can be provided by more than just you. Utilize your village so the needs of the child are met. Don’t refuse adequate help that can be beneficial.
For example, my bambino needs a trainer. I could easily work her out but why run my cup over. She’s getting trained by someone who does it for a living. In the end, we both win.